After years of single motherhood, I thought I’d found my happily ever after. But the morning after my wedding, I opened the fridge to make breakfast and discovered something that made my blood run cold. Had I just made the biggest mistake of my life?
I never thought I’d remarry after my divorce. But when I met Jason, I felt that spark again. He was kind, understanding, and great with my daughter. I thought he was perfect.
Little did I know, the morning after our wedding would change everything.A woman sitting by her living room window | Source: Midjourney
It all started three years ago when my ex-husband and I split up. Lily was only seven then, and suddenly, I had to juggle work, chores, and single motherhood. It wasn’t easy, but I had an amazing support system.
“Mom, when’s Dad coming back?” Lily asked one night after my divorce.I sat next to her on the bed, pulling her close.
“Sweetheart, Dad’s not coming back to live with us. But he still loves you very much, and you’ll see him often.”
“But why can’t we all be together?”
My heart broke at that point.
“Sometimes, grown-ups realize they’re better apart,” I replied, trying not to cry. “But that doesn’t change how much we love you, okay? You’re still our little baby and we love you to the moon and back!”
I’ll be honest, those first few years after my divorce were tough. I barely had time to breathe between work deadlines and Lily’s school events, but we somehow made it work.
I think it was mostly because of my parents who were always ready to babysit or bring over a home-cooked meal.
Meanwhile, my friends kept telling me to get back out there, but I was nervous. I mean, Lily was my priority, and I couldn’t bear the thought of bringing someone into her life who might hurt her.
“Susan, you deserve happiness too,” my best friend, Rachel, said over coffee one day. “Lily’s doing great. Maybe it’s time to think about yourself a little.”
So, I dipped my toes back into the dating pool. There were a few disasters (like the guy who showed up to our date in sweatpants), but then I met Jason.Meanwhile, my friends kept telling me to get back out there, but I was nervous. I mean, Lily was my priority, and I couldn’t bear the thought of bringing someone into her life who might hurt her.
“Susan, you deserve happiness too,” my best friend, Rachel, said over coffee one day. “Lily’s doing great. Maybe it’s time to think about yourself a little.”
So, I dipped my toes back into the dating pool. There were a few disasters (like the guy who showed up to our date in sweatpants), but then I met Jason.He was charming, successful, and seemed genuinely interested in my life as a mom. After a few dates, I found myself smiling more, looking forward to his texts.
“You look happy, Mom,” Lily said one morning as I hummed while making breakfast.“I am, sweetie,” I looked at her with a smile. “I’ve met someone nice. Would you like to meet him sometime?”
She nodded eagerly.
“Is he funny like Dad used to be?” she asked.That’s when I decided to introduce Lily to Jason. I was so nervous, but that feeling faded away as soon as I saw Jason talking to Lily like he’d known her all his life.My heart broke at that point.
“Sometimes, grown-ups realize they’re better apart,” I replied, trying not to cry. “But that doesn’t change how much we love you, okay? You’re still our little baby and we love you to the moon and back!”I’ll be honest, those first few years after my divorce were tough. I barely had time to breathe between work deadlines and Lily’s school events, but we somehow made it work.
I think it was mostly because of my parents who were always ready to babysit or bring over a home-cooked meal.